Dear Sweetheart,

          I decided to write this letter to you to let you know just how much you are appreciated, how much and why I love you. You may think the things you do go un noticed but I thank God for you everyday because you complete me. One of the most important things in a relationship is communication and I love it when were able to talk, laugh, pray and even cry with each other. We have our friendship that keeps us going no matter what, not many woman can say their other half is also their bestfriend. I remember the first time we made love, well had better times after that. But I will never forget how patient you were until you really got to know me inside and out, I thank you for that. I love making love to you because it’s not just a physical thing with us, I’m also mentally satisfied. Your so understanding to what it is that I need in life to were I never really have to worry, because I know you got my back. Your always putting the kids and I first making sure were straight and have everything we need. And if we don’t your always trying your best, that is a real man to me. I know things can get hectic around here sometimes, and I don’t know how you keep your cool but thats one thing among others your very good at. I want to continue loving you the way you need to be loved sweety, you deserve it. I don’t know what I would do with out your arms wrapped around me at night to protect me and during the day to make me blush. When we travel to exotic places like the virgin islands, India and Spain I love having crazy sex on the beach and watching the sun rise the next moring. I know it gets on your nerves when I pack the whole house on vacation but you can’t front I always have something that you’ve forgotten. ;) Now that were bringing our own little angel into the world I feel even more complete. I love when you rub my belly at night so I can fall asleep or when we go the movies and I’m drinking a milk shake. I know you hate getting up late at night just to drive and get me strawberries to dip in peanut butter. I do appreciate it though and I’m sorry to put you through that, but I can’t help it. I think it’s so cute when were in the mall and you tie my shoe lace so I won’t fall flat on my face like I did last time in Babies r us. See it’s the small things in life that really matter baaaaaaaaaaaaby. Your so good to me, where the hell did I find you?  Oh yea in Med school, you accidently dropped coffee on my text book in the lounge. Remembeeeeeeeeeer? Okay baby my letter has come to an end. I just want to say thank you for being a friend, lover, husband, father of my child, buddy, supporter, math proffessor, mechanic, carpenter, my big daddy, wrestle partner, debator, counsler, smooth operator and my sexual milk chocolate. I love you sooooo much! I love you for being just who you are.

                                                                       Love Always

                                                                            Jah

Have you ever met someone and wondered, why the hell did that happened? Sometimes it can be in a negative or positive way but we always hope for the best. Don’t we? LIFE has a funny way of exposing you to things and people just when you don’t want to, or at a very challenging time in your life. I don’t understand that at all. For example, if you’ve just come out of a long term relationship that ended in shambles, your heart was broken or you were just dealing with an asshole. You’d say to yourself ” I don’t want to be involved with anyone else for alooooooooooooooong time I don’t even want to share my fucking time or waste not even a little bit of energy on another person.” Then LIFE will of course ignore you and plop someone right on ya lap that didn’t even pay for the dance. This person may be everything you need at the MOMENT. A friend, drinking or smoking buddy, an artist, a dancer, a writer, photographer, singer, a teacher or just someone that is just right makeup that you want to wear without it running OUT! Even with everything you didn’t want to do and all the plans you made, LIFE will have you thinking that what has just happened unexpectedly is okay. And for that, LIFE I love you because you’ve taught me that I don’t know everything, when things are going to happen or even why there happening. I am just a passenger but LIFE is in the drivers seat:)